Sara Davidson
|August, 3, 2026
Is there a food you’ve disliked, as long as you can remember?
It’s hard for me to know when it started, but I’ve always disliked peas. When they appear on a plate, I gently push them aside. I never have them in my home or eat them other places.
I know it began in childhood, not exactly when or why. Tonight, for the first time in more than 70 years, I put a forkful of peas in my mouth.
To my surprise, it was not bad. I can’t say I liked the taste but it was not repellent. So I began chewing the peas, and nothing much happened. No wave of discomfort, though I can’t say I enjoyed them.
They were soft, easy to chew, with a texture similar to cooked corn.
Oh My God. I’ve been certain, no question, all my life, that I did not care for and would not eat peas.
Of course that’s not the only thing I disliked. I still will not eat beets. (except in borsht)
I began polling friends. Elizabeth won’t eat raw tomatoes, though she loves their flavor in spaghetti and other dishes. Andy Weil, who’s known for eating almost everything, won’t eat licorice or fennel. Tina hates lima beans. Larry says, “Truffles smell like vomit to me. Oysters are too slimy. I don’t much like tomatoes but love everything you can make from a tomato. There’s a slime inside the slice.” He adds, “I think there’s a theme of sliminess here.”
Rachel dislikes olives. Rio has the longest list: eggplant, bell pepper, all squashes, and despite being from Mississippi, he won’t eat watermelon! He also won’t eat tilapia, rhubarb, marshmallows, canned vegetables, cucumber sandwiches or gnocchi. (Maybe we should list what he will eat?) But he cooks great meals, absent those elements.
The most disliked food, according to the Internet, is liver, followed by salmon, brussels sprouts, eggplant and anchovies. But the Internet doesn’t tell us why.
Some people remember the moment they ate something they couldn’t stand. Kelly dislikes Twizzler candy, and says it started in childhood. She’d been sledding and at the end of one run, she hit a rock and was overcome with dizziness. When she got into a parent’s car to go home, the parent passed around raspberry Twizzlers to all the kids. Kelly was suffering a concussion and the smell of Twizzlers became linked to feeling dizzy and nauseous.
Animals also seem to have their likes and dislikes, which often make no sense to us. So I wonder, is it our nature—humans and animals—to crave certain foods and dislike others? Are we hardwired to do so? Interestingly, people in the same family, who grow up together, often have different tastes and displeasures.
It would seem ideal to have no distastes in food, but I’ve yet to meet someone for whom that’s true. If you are one of those rare creatures, please let us know. And if you’re not, tell us specifically what you don’t like and when that came about. We’ll see if there’s a trend.
I like most vegetables but I can’t stand beets. My dad was the same so I think it’s a genetic thing. To me beets taste like dirt smells.
My dislikes are chicken liver and lima beans — oh, and butter and Schmalz (lard). In both categories, it has to do with texture.
What a fun column. I dislike cooked peas but love them raw. i dislike brussel sprouts, cooked broccoli and cauliflour although i like them raw, i dislike hot peppers, all meat (except for fish – i.e. i’m a pescatarian), dislike anything soggy, but i LOVE fresh veggies in salads, love cooked asparagus, (add it to salad), love fresh baked sourdough bread with butter (yum), love chinese/thai/Indian/mexican food, anyway, that’s enough from me. Thanks for asking!!!
Greta to hear about your food preferences. Thanks for replying. Sara
Great to hear what you LOVE. Warmest, Sara
Liver was served for din’, once in a while, when I was growing up. Even well into my 20’s (which would take us a little past 1980) I might choose it – especially at the open-for dinner cafeteria that used to be on the main floor of the great old Hotel Harrington, in Washington, DC. I stopped choosing it in the years after that because I simply think it is too dangerous an organ to consume – the animals it comes from, no real telling what they have been exposed to, what toxins their livers were dealing with.
I agree. but i enjoy chopped chicken liver.
Reading this post reminded me of our pug, Whistle, growing up. He
Lived to be 13 and we fed him lots of table food. But he would mot eat peas either. He was able to pick them out and eat around them. It was so funny at how good he was at finding them even when hidden!
That’s hilarious! Wish we’d had a dog like Whistle. Warmest, Sara
Hi Sara-Ironically my two primary dislikes are also peas and beets! Do you think that this has something to do with the fact that our mothers were friends? Clearly a conspiracy!
It’s ironic indeed that we dislike the same things, haveing been raised in similar environments. Wonderful to hear from you. Hope all is well. Sara
It is kind of amazing that we both dislike peas and beets. Wndering what your favorite foods are? Great to hear from you, Sara
Hominy. Ate it once as a child, got terrible digestion issues. Not even sure it caused that, but hated it ever since.
Mushrooms.
I think you are on to something regarding slime, consider okra!
I do not like eggplant, okra, licorice and raw cucumbers
Amazing how many similarities there are in what people dislike. eggplant and okra are right up there. Always a pleasure to hear from you. Thanks!
I can’t stand cottage cheese, and avocados. Though I love guacamole! But slices of avocados make me gag!
It’s amazing how strong these food dislikes are. Fortunately, most of us don’t have too manyh of them. Thanks for responding!
I absolutely loathe any type of pepper. I have felt this way since I was in my youth forming years. My mother would cook ground beef stuffed bell peppers and I would not eat at all. As a person who abstains from meat for ethical reasons, one can understand why I turned my nose up. To this day I cannot stand peppers – I will pick them out of any dish and still be sad as the dish is forever tainted.
Over the years, I have learned to tolerate, if not love, certain foods. This includes brussel sprouts and most organ meats. However, the only form of liver I can tolerate, is pate, and that barely. No liver for me!
Great to hear from you Vicki. It’s amazing how similar people’s food dislikes are. I’ve always liked brussel sprouts, but I would gag if I had to eat beets. I do like chopped chicken liver — I think that’s a Jewish standby, “chopped liver.” So much of this has to do with what one was exposed to when young. Hard to undo those experiences. Thanks for writing. Warmest, Sara
For years I disliked eggplant, due to my abusive step-father forcing me to eat my mother’s horrid eggplant parmesan. (My mother was never a good cook…90% of what she made us was at least partially pre-fab (“hamburger helper”) if not fully defrosted.) I surprised myself a few years ago, after a session of pysilocybin therapy, by trying it and being okay with it. (Like your adventure with peas, I can’t say I loved it, but I found it far more tolerable than expected.)
I’m with you, Daniel. Those early diststes are hard to overcome. And there’s so much else to enjoy, why bother? Hope you’re getting more pleasing food these days.
Too funny. The only two vegetables I won’t eat are peas and beets! Can’t stand ’em. I was just at a knife skills class, cooking, not throwing, and the instructor said we have between 6-10K tastebuds (don’t quote me) and that people who are super picky into adulthood are “super tasters” meaning that they actually have more tastebuds. Which is actually the opposite of what I’ve always thought of those with very plain, (order off the kids menu) tastes. That said, I refuse to reward such pickiness with the title of “Super Taster” as that will just make them insufferable.
Too funny. The only two vegetables I won’t eat are peas and beets! Can’t stand ’em. I was just at a knife skills class, cooking, not throwing, and the instructor said we have between 6-10K tastebuds (don’t quote me) and that people who are super picky into adulthood are “super tasters” meaning that they actually have more tastebuds. Which is actually the opposite of what I’ve always thought of those with very plain, (order off the kids menu) tastes. That said, I refuse to reward such pickiness with the title of “Super Taster” as that will just make them insufferable.
Amen! Thanks for your thoughts.
I wish you would write another book. I have followed you from Loose Change until now. I love the way you write. Foods are any kind of liver, oysters and radishes…from childhood
I’d like to write another book, but I haven’t had the inspiration. Maybe that will come. Hope so. Thanks for your kind words.
My daddy made me eat oysters in a soup when I was five. I vomited them up at table and he never forced me again. I still hate oysters!
Those childhood experiences set us for life. I don’t care for oysters, either.
Oh Sara , this is so much fun!
As far as food goes, I once tried a quail egg in a sushi restaurant: GROSS! It didn’t make it past my teeth. Octopus felt like chewing rubber. I’ll never eat escargot. If I want the taste of garlic (w/o the slime) I’ll just eat roasted garlic. Another food I really don’t like is okra because it’s gooey! For me, I think it has to do with texture more than taste. And as for escargot, it’d be like eating a slug. Yuck!
One more thing about escargot: back in the 80’s I was with my fiancé at a romantic cafe within the castle walls at Carcasone, France. He ordered escargot and picked a big fight with me when I wouldn’t eat them. I explained that they reminded me of the snails I saw and tried to avoid stepping on while in school in Madrid. He didn’t care.
Him:” You don’t trust me!”
Me: “ What??????”
I called that wedding off!
So sorry to hear that. But I imagine there would have been more, perhaps more serious disagreements. Warm regards. Sara
I laughed out loud when I read this because I’ve hated peas my entire life. It started when I was 5 and my mother made me sit at the table until I ate them. She left to go to my grandmother’s house (my older brother must have been home) and returned and I still hadn’t eaten them, and I haven’t to this day. It’s a matter of principal at this point. Putting a forkfull of peas in my mouth at age 75 still seems impossible!
Yes, I occasionally try to eat a spoonful of peas, thinking, how bad could it be? But I still prefer to skip them. Warmest, Sara
Although I’m considered the consummate omnivore, okra is on my “kill list”.
Slimy, bitter, repugnant.
There are a few of us that love sautéed calves liver served with bacon, a baked potato and spinach. My Gen Z grandchildren are horrified!